Hello, lovelies!!! I hope you’re all well. Over the next few days I am going to be talking about, mantras and mala beads. Today’s post will be short, I really just want to leave you with this mantra to consider. I will go into detail about it tomorrow.
Hello, lovelies. Last night around 11:33 pm I was hit by a wave of sadness. I couldn’t stop crying and it felt like the pain in my heart would never heal. Now I was very confused as to where all this came from and why I was in so much pain. I sat there crying trying so hard to figure out what was going on. When a very wonderful friend reminded me I had been doing shadow work. I very clearly had been asking the universe for healing and it all clicked. I had experienced a healing dam break.
This is not something I touched on in any of my posts about shadow work, the truth was I didn’t even really think about it until it happened to me. What is a healing dam break? Basically, it’s when your soul releases all the things you have been healing with your shadow work in one giant wave. All the things I had worked out during my shadow work were now being fully cleared out of me. It was awful, it’s been a long time since I had been desperate for something to stop. Again that wonderful friend said to me as the walls feel the little people build little walls to make sure everything doesn’t get flooded. She was so right. It feels like the pain was flowing in an irrigation system that was growing everything around me. My pain was transformed into beauty.
When the tears finally stopped it felt like a 1000 years of hell had been cleared out of me. I felt lighter and freer then I had in years. I woke up this morning with a renewed purpose in my path and lightness that propelled me forward. This is not how it may work for all of you. Each one of us grieves in different ways, but know that a time of grieving will come. When it does be gentle and loving with yourself. Allow yourself the time to grieve and reach out to those around you who can help ease this process. With grieving comes freedom.
Hello beautiful people!!! I hope you are all doing well. When I last left you, I highlighted all the problems withThe Law of Attraction. Now let’s take a look at the positive side as well as some solutions. First of all, knowing that you create your own reality is helpful because it does give you control and freedom in terms of how your life goes. If you are able to truly harness your emotions, you can use thoughts and feelings to manifest whatever it is you desire. When you are able to stop resisting something, you can manifest it.
Now let’s get to the nitty-gritty. How do you deal with The Law of Attraction? Well, the first thing you need to understand is that we are comprised of two parts, our temporal body consciousness and our higher-self consciousness. Our goal throughout our life is to reach harmony between our temporal consciousness and our higher-self consciousness. These bodies are in constant conversation both consciously and subconsciously. Our higher self is pure source love and responds to our subconscious prompts because they are usually the most authentic. Since it’s only desire for us is inner peace and love, it manifests into our lives whatever we are longing for. Where we can feel a disconnection is how we see things in our physical reality versus how our higher self sees things.
Here is an example of what I mean. Let’s say we decide we are ready for a relationship, so we start to focus our energy on finding that special person. Our higher self may bring us a million people who aren’t the one so that we understand what “the one” actually looks like.
There is where the issue lies for us. It seems like life is getting worse and worse…why? Because we can’t see what our higher self is doing. We think something is missing in us. There must be some sort of resistance that is leading us to these awful choices. What we need to do is stop trying to heal ourselves and look at what our higher self is doing for us. As soon as we do that, we lose all resistance to what our higher self is doing, and things start to improve. All in all, we are in a time of change, thus, The Law of Attraction is evolving as well. Our collective consciousness needs to continue the work of evolving this universal law. When this law first originated, it was needed, and it is still serving many people. Now, it’s ready for a shift. For transformation. Eventually, we won’t need the law of attraction anymore.
As always, thanks for listening. Share your thoughts down below.
Hello, lovelies. I hope today is magical. Yesterday I left you on a Law of Attraction cliffhanger. Not nice, I realize, but I wanted to give you some time to absorb what I said. When I left you last I talked about how we create our own reality with the thoughts we think and the emotions those thoughts evoke. So in theory, if we only think good things then we will receive only good things?? NOOOOO!!!! For starters, controlling your thoughts is a lot easier said than done. The more effort you put into not thinking about “bad” things, the more you think about them.
The next issue is that some of the negativity that invades our minds is completely subconscious–most of it originating from childhood experiences or from collective consciousness. Finally, the biggest thing is that our consciousness is comprised of two parts, our human consciousness and our higher self. Our higher self is pure source love that only wants to see the best for us. The way our higher self sees reality is different than how we view it from our physical perspective.
What does this mean? Basically, our higher self may give us challenges to show us what we don’t want so when we get what we do want we know what it really looks like and we are in a position to receive it. So where does this leave us? It seems like we are governed by some universal law that is basically like walking through a minefield. First of all, The Law of Attraction is not bad, and I will go over why tomorrow. Also, there is a lot we can do about this issue, which will be explained later. For now, just let this new little information settle in.
Hello, lovelies!! I hope today is going well. Today begins a new series of spiritual exploration. This week’s topic is the Law of Attraction For those of you who know what it is, you may have a love-hate relationship with it like I do. For those of you who are unfamiliar with it today’s blog will give you the basics of it. Over the rest of this week, we will explore it in more detail and ultimately look at how it is changing.
To begin with, it is important to understand that The Law of Attraction is part of a trio that also contains The Science of Deliberate Creation, and lastly The Art of Allowing.They all work together like building blocks and to use one you must be able to utilize the other two.
The Law of Attraction is the first in this series of laws. So what does it mean? Well to quote Esther and Jerry Hicks “That which is like unto itself is drawn.” essentially whatever you put your attention to you create. Good or bad if you focus on it then you bring it into your reality. At the core of this, it means you create your reality with the thoughts you think.
The implications of this are vast. It means that every situation we have ever been was our doing, even the bad stuff. Now I don’t know about you but the first time I heard this I immediately went, are you kidding me. Hell no! I have experienced some pretty shitty shit and you’re trying to tell me I created that myself? Excuse my language but f**ck outta here!!! No… no way. So I walked away from the idea of The Law Attraction fora while. The problem was once you’ve been awakened it’s hard to go back to sleep.
Things kept happening proving that maybe this law wasn’t complete bullshit. After a while of resistance, I went back to it and decided to understand what it really meant and how to live with it. If everything I think brings about my reality this could be very helpful. If I start to focus my thoughts only the good then only good will attract to my reality right???
Wrong, so, so wrong!!!!!
All right, beautiful people, this is where I leave us today. I promise I will explain why it was wrong tomorrow! As always thank you for listening. Please share your thoughts down below.
Today’s Affirmation: I am a beautiful, intelligent creator, who has full control of her life.
Hello, lovelies. I hope you’re doing well today. Question are you a friend or a foe disguised as a friend? This comes from the Teal Swanvideo titled just that. In it, she talks about how people live for the role of shadow exposure in someone else’s life. She goes into depth what actually drives people to do this.
It inspired this prompt/warning:What things do you hold yourself accountable for that you are really not accountable for?
Now, what does this mean? When I saw the title of that Teal Swanvideo, my first reaction was oh crap another part of my shadow I have to face. Well, here we go… but as I watched it I realized that this did not relate to me at all. I sat there confused as hell because I totally expected to have another giant shadow work revelation, and well… it never came.
Then I realized I’d fallen into a classic shadow work trap. As I see it the shadow work trap is 2 fold. It starts with trying to see ourselves in every negative thing so we can get the most healing done the fastest. This leads to creating fake shadows and missing the real shadows. The second part is you get so high on the revelation and freedom that comes from healing the shadow, that when it doesn’t happen you hit a low point and the revelation becomes a shadow. No longer are you doing it for true healing but for the high you get. I realized I was falling right into this trap and I felt like every day had to be a revelation. This has led me to an important breakthrough daily shadow work is not a good thing. This is why I believe this it puts you in a place to have daily revelations and at some point, you start saying the same things over and over again because you haven’t had time to let new stuff work its way up. That being said I am switching this shadow work to once a week. I will still do the daily affirmations and instead each week I am going to pick a topic and spend 6 days learning about it and sharing it with you. Day 7 will be shadow work. Now, this where I really need your feedback. What do you guys want to know about???? Share down below. Starting Monday, I will be looking at the law of attraction and what that really means.
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Hello, lovelies!!! I hope today is starting off well. We did it a week of shadow work completed. How is everyone feeling? This journey for me has been a healing but painful one, and we’ve only just begun. Today’s questions are based on a video by the even wonderful Teal Swan it’s called OVERLAY (What Prevents You From Having a Real Relationship) – Teal Swan. Now some of you are probably wondering what overlay is. I really recommend you watch her video as she gives an amazing explanation. Here is a brief explanation. An overlay is an idea we have created in our heads that prevent us from seeing reality. For example, we see our boyfriend or girlfriend as this overprotective, truly dedicated person. Our friends and family see a controlling, obsessive tornado about to tear us down. We have created an overlay of this person because we are so desperate not to be alone and we want someone to love us above all else.
The prompt: Where do you have an overlay in your life? What are the consequences of that? How can you change that?
This is a concept I know way too much about. I have spent most of my life living in overlay’s and refusing to face reality. I would cast people in roles and they would inevitably disappoint and the overlay would blow up in flames, so I’d create a new one. Thus the cycle would continue. My consequences were pretty severe. I lost a lot of people and created a lot of mistrust with the people that were left.
Financially I was always at the lowest place I could be and I kept myself there to feed the overlay I had created. Now in truth this something I used to do like the plague. Since becoming more self-aware, I tend to do it less often. There are definitely times I still fall into overlay mode as I like to call it. It usually happens when something is super important to me and I am terrified of it going wrong so I only allow myself to see the picture that works for me.
The difference is now I am more aware of that happening and so I am usually able to catch myself before it goes too far. I also keep people around me who can see where I’m blind.
An overlay is a tricky concept, and painful to move out of. It’s not always bad to have overlay as long as you can still see reality.
My Affirmation for today: My reality is beautiful and exactly what it is supposed to be, for that I am grateful.
As always, thanks for listening, feel free to comment down below.